Live Virtual Group Session: 6PM EDT June 2nd 2025

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For this session we read an excerpt from Wandering Stars” by Tommy Orange, posted below.

Our prompt was: “Write about what is lost in the taking?”

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Wandering Stars by Tommy Orange excerpt from pg. 83

Well he’s only got the one eye, but it’s got more life in it than I’ve seen in some men with two. And I’ve seen worse when they know what they want and they’re hungry for it, white men in this country, they come to take everything, even themselves, they have taken so much they have lost themselves in the taking, and what will be left of such a nation once they are done? My mother once said, “A nation is not conquered until the hearts of its women are on the ground. Then it is finished, no matter how brave its warriors, or how strong their weapons.” I wondered about the women’s hearts on the ground. And I wondered about American women. White women. Where were their hearts? I take solace in knowing my heart is still in my chest, that yours is in there too, beating like a drum waiting for its dancer, keeping me on my feet, ready for a rhythm, ready for what’s next, because what’s next is always coming.

Your father had a harder time at the school, because he was a boy but also because of his freckles, which he had on account of him being a half-breed, which meant he got it bad from both sides. No one wanted him because he didn’t seem like he belonged enough on either side.

Sometimes the look on his face got so bad it seemed to be saying he didn’t even belong to himself, did not even want to belong to himself.

Wandering Stars by Tommy Orange p. 83

Credit: Tommy Orange

4 thoughts on “Live Virtual Group Session: 6PM EDT June 2nd 2025

  1. Joelle's avatar Joelle

    What is lost in the taking?

    It’s like sitting down to a 7 course meal laid out before you. Someone with a stopwatch says “Go!” And you just eat without stopping, without tasting, without savoring the flavors, passion or love of those who prepared it. Your esophagus spasms in protest. The drink sloshes around in your stomach which is bloated and uncomfortable in now too tight pants. But you blame those who prepared the meal. You don’t think you did anything but follow the rules and try to win the game. They said “Go!” And you did. You never asked why. You did not refuse to play.

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    • michele348's avatar michele348

      Joelle, this got me laughing and remembering when the family used to go to those “all you can eat’ buffets. And I usually did and regretted it for the next 3 days! 🙂

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  2. Aman Chaudhary's avatar Aman

    Can someone tell me what the other news story was that was referenced in Francie’s piece? Dinah mentioned Valerie the dachshund, but I missed what the other one was. I’m afraid I also had an issue with not being able to hear the audio well due to feedback. Thanks!

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  3. michele348's avatar michele348

    What is lost in the taking?

    One by one, in the middle of the night,
    my freedom is taken,
    bite by bite,
    leaving me starving.

    I awake to darkness,
    even though the sun is shining.
    Darkness covers the normality of living.

    When I wake up tomorrow,
    will I still be able
    to shout my disagreement?
    Will I find myself still a citizen in “good standing”
    or will the tag “woke” hang around my neck?

    We were given inalienable rights as citizens of this
    great country,
    but now, it seems,
    the ink has become blurred,
    slowly dissolving into the background.

    When the powerful take,
    what becomes of those
    whose voices are no longer heard,
    no longer recognized?

    Do we become ghosts,
    no longer visible?
    Maybe?

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