Live Virtual Group Session: 12PM EDT March 21st 2025

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For this session we read an excerpt from the novel Autumn” by Ali Smith, posted below.

Our prompt was: Write about comforting a child.

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 Excerpt from Autumn by Ali Smith

Elisabeth strapped her rollerblades on, laced them up and went round to Daniel's house. Daniel was in the back garden. Elisabeth rollerbladed down the path.
Oh hello, Daniel said. It's you. What you reading?
I couldn't get to sleep last night, she said.
Wait, Daniel said. First of all, tell me. What are you reading?
Clockwork, she said. It's really good. I told you about it yesterday. The
one about people making up the story but then the story becomes true and starts to happen and is really terrible.
I remember, Daniel said. They stop the bad thing happening by singing a song.
Yes, Elisabeth said.
If only life were so simple, Daniel said.
That's what I'm saying, Elisabeth said. I couldn't sleep.
Because of the book? Daniel said.
Elisabeth told him about the pavement, her feet, her father's face. Daniel looked grave. He sat down on the lawn. He patted the place on the grass next to him.
It's all right to forget, you know, he said. It's good to. In fact, we have to forget things sometimes. Forgetting it is important. We do it on purpose. It means we get a bit of a rest. Are you listening? We have to forget. Or we'd never sleep ever again.
Elisabeth was crying now like a much younger child cries. Crying came
out of her like weather.
Daniel put his hand flat against her back.
What I do when it distresses me that there's something I can't remember, is. Are you listening?
Yes, Elisabeth said through the crying.
I imagine that whatever it is I've forgotten is folded close to me, like a sleeping bird.
What kind of bird? Elisabeth said.
A wild bird, Daniel said. Any kind. You'll know what kind when it hap-pens. Then, what I do is, I just hold it there, without holding it too tight, and I let it sleep. And that's that.
Then he asked her if it was true that the rollerskates with the lights on the backs of them only worked on roads, and if it was true that the lights in the backs of them didn't come on at all if you rollerskated on grass.
Elisabeth stopped crying.
They're called rollerblades, she said.
Rollerblades, Daniel said. Right. Well?
And you can't rollerblade on grass, she said.
Can't you? Daniel said. How very disappointing truth is sometimes. Can't we try?
There'd be no point, she said.
Can't we try anyway? he said. We might disprove the general consensus.
Okay, Elisabeth said.
She got up. She wiped her face on her sleeve.

Credit: Ali Smith

14 thoughts on “Live Virtual Group Session: 12PM EDT March 21st 2025

  1. al3793's avatar al3793

    Write about comforting a child…After reading an excerpt from Autum by Ari Smith (see below)

    I lifted her to my lap and placed my hand gently on her backAlligator tears streaming down her cheeksI looked at her intently and tilted my head with a slight smileTell me Tell me Tell meI wanted M&Ms but there aren’t anyBut I still want themThey make me smile insideThey have a little “m” on them like in my name andthe colors are prettyShe stifled her sobs with some staccato breathsAnd upward jerks of her shoulders and headI want to tell you something…And she wiped the tears from her cheeks with her sleeve

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    • Elizabeth's avatar Elizabeth

      Andre-so touching. You really painted a picture and I was watching the scene in my mind’s eye.

      PS- It’s amazing how M&M’s can make things feel better to a child(And sometimes an adult)😉

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  2. Elizabeth's avatar Elizabeth

    When I was a little girl,

    If I fell and cried,

    My mother used to say to me,

    ” It’s OK, it’s OK,”

    But it wasn’t OK.

    While I was comforted,

    I felt not totally heard.

    Then I became a parent

    And realized she was comforting herself too

    When her child was in pain

    And I would repeat her words,

    ” It’s OK, it’s OK”

    To my child.

    As an adult with her gone,

    I long to hear her say

    That it will be OK.

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    • michele348's avatar michele348

      By our feeble words, we hope to make things all better. We know that they won’t remedy all things, but one thing is for sure, we know they come from a source of love and concern. And that’s what lingers the longest in our hearts. Beautiful, Elizabeth

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    • al3793's avatar al3793

      Elizabeth,

      Your speaker reminds me that we have dual intentions when we try to reassure, one that been injured. First and most instinctual, upon our assessment of the situation that the injured is feeling better or that we are confident that they will, and that in the arms of an-other they are in fact, “ok”. Hopefully, there are times when the latter provides the sustenance for the former to occur.

      Again, I marvel at how you convey your message with simple and few words. It is a beautiful thing.

      Thank you.

      Andre

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  3. michele348's avatar michele348

    About comforting a child~~~

    She does not yet know how to walk,
    nor can she speak like
    other 7-year-old little girls.

    Yet, in her silence,
    her voice conveys so much
    wisdom to my ears.

    She observes the world in a deeply personal way…
    touching, feeling, and listening to the world around her.

    As I sing a children’s song to her,
    she listens intently
    and signals that she wants to hear more.

    She is a child of love.

    Her hugs are reserved for those she knows,
    sending a clear message that she cares deeply.
    Her hugs heal the heart within.

    Her smile lights up the world,
    especially the part I inhabit.
    I would say,
    she comforts me more than what
    I could ever return to her.

    She is a gift to the world and to me
    and I am so grateful.

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    • Elizabeth's avatar Elizabeth

      I don’t know if you’re speaking about your granddaughter again, but the love is so strong in this piece —it’s bursting from it. It really touches my heart in a wonderful way.

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    • al3793's avatar al3793

      Michele, knowing your “speaker’s” story I was fighting back tears. It is such a love story and reminds me that we receive much more than we give. It also reminds us to pay attention to what we learn in the silence. It reminds me this week of what St. Joseph accomplished in silence, and we can emulate that. It also reminds me of how much communication is non verbal and how powerful it can be. Thank you for sharing this very personal story.

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  4. antoinette56's avatar antoinette56

    Thank you for the reminder to look at this Andre! I’ve been meaning to remember to “look in” after being in a session. Although I hate to mess with the top title which now reads “13 Thoughts on Live Virtual Session…” – reminds me of Wallace Stevens’ “13 Ways of Looking at a Blackbird.”

    Thank you for your very touching writings Andre, Elizabeth and Michele:

    • Andre, I love that her name starts with M and that’s a powerful connection between her and M&Ms
    • Elizabeth, I love the way becoming a parent reframes our childhood experiences
    • Michele, I also felt the deep personal love in your piece

    Here’s mine:

    Weather – it comes unexpectedly and is not to be stopped. So are a child’s feelings, they cannot be stopped only driven underground, to fester or explode. Something underfoot. Daniel’s hand on her back is like a steady touch point, literally a port in a storm. Wild and sleeping are not mutually exclusive, they can co-exist and do, even to the birds sleeping on the wing, like swifts. Swifts to not set claw to earth or twig for months at a time. Could a bird be sleeping and folded also? And what bird do I imagine? What bird would Elisabeth imagine? Swift, robin, thrush, albatross, frigate bird, grackle, hummingbird… Also – do other languages have more than one word per season (like “fall” and “autumn”)? So interesting. What are you reading? means are you still open to what is in the world, in front of you? What are you engaging with?

    Hope to see you all soon!

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