Live Virtual Group Session: 12PM EDT July 21st 2023

Thank you to everyone who joined us for this session!

For this session we read a poem The Rungs” by Benjamin Gucciardi, posted below.

Our prompt was: Write about the rungs on a ladder of trust.

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 "The Rungs" by Benjamin Gucciardi

Only the person with the green dice should be talking,
I remind the boys, holding up the oversized foam cubes.

And the others should be? Listening, K. says,
and how should we listen? Con el corazón, M. replies,

thumping his chest with his closed fist.
That’s right, I say, with the heart. Who wants to start?

The dice are passed around the circle
and the boys gloss over the check-in question.

When they reach B., who walked here, unaccompanied,
from Honduras three months ago, he holds them like boulders.

We straighten when his lip begins to quiver.
It’s not my place to tell you what he shared that day.

But I can tell you how M. put his hand on B.’s back
and said, maje, desahógate,

which translates roughly to un-drown yourself,
though no English phrase so willingly accepts

that everyone has drowned, and that we can reverse that gasping,
expel the fluids from our lungs.

I sit quietly as the boys make, with their bodies, the rungs of a ladder,
and B. climbs up from the current, sits in the sun

for a few good minutes before he jumps back in.
The dice finish the round and we are well over time.

I resist the urge to speak about rafts, what it means to float.
Good, I tell them, let’s go back to class.

After handshakes and side hugs, I’m left alone in the small room
with a box of unopened tissues, two starburst wrappers on the ground.

Copyright © 2021 by Benjamin Gucciardi.

7 thoughts on “Live Virtual Group Session: 12PM EDT July 21st 2023

  1. Michele348's avatar Michele348

    About the rungs on a ladder of trust~~~

    As a child, everything is new and exciting and sometimes a bit scary… like when the lights go out in the house at night during a raging thunderstorm and Mom, carrying a lit candle, finds you in the dark and tells you it’s going to be okay and the power will be back on soon.

    When you’re learning to navigate the world as a child, you hold on tightly to Dad’s hand as you cross the street because nothing will harm you if Dad’s there. You are empowered.

    But what happens when we are all grown up, able to fend for ourselves?
    Who do we trust then?
    I trust in the Creator… the Alpha, the Omega, for I know He has my back and I should fear not.
    I know He is there with me, supporting me, as I climb the rungs of the ladder of life.

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    • al3793's avatar al3793

      Michele, I love this story and the important semantic of life missing from so many lives that they don’t learn to trust. Your storyteller describes a “stepwise” journey of learning to trust. The image of a mother searching for her child in the dark guided by the light of a candle and the empowerment of a daughter holding her father’s hand crossing a street safely are vivid and basted in love. Ultimate certitude is found in the love of the Divine, a source of trust not to be duplicated in our humanity, yet can be approached, if only we surrender and trust. It provides a joy that reminds us that we are loved perfectly even when life is a mess. Beautiful. Andre

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  2. al3793's avatar al3793

    Write about the rungs of a ladder of trust

    Before taking the first step shake the ladder
    back and forth and side to side
    insuring it is on sound ground
    and balanced.

    Each step sure footed
    no matter the effort required
    to reach the next rung
    confident that the rung will
    hold your weight
    it wont’ twist on an insecure bond
    of rung to ladder
    creaking or cracking under the
    weight of your effort to ascend and
    your foot doesn’t slip from
    the dampness of the morning
    as if the rung grips your sole
    your quads extend steadily with confidence
    that you will find waiting
    a ready, next rung.

    afl

    PS: I was late to the session but was able to listen to a reading of the poem at On Being: https://onbeing.org/poetry/the-rungs/

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    • michele348's avatar michele348

      So much of life is about “taking baby steps” because there is so much uncertainty about us. “Should I or shouldn’t I” is the common mentality. Fear of the unknown, fear of taking a leap of faith. To trust is to put yourself at the end of the tree branch and know that you will be held by the loving hands of the Creator. Thanks for posting the link at On Being…going to check it out.

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  3. rehavia6's avatar rehavia6

    Write About the Rungs on the Ladder of Trust

    Stand at arms length
    Exchange pleasantries.
    Sit together on a bench.
    Share a laugh
    Discover commonalities
    Confide in each other
    Assuredness that you protect my secrets.
    Knowledge that you will defend me when I am in the fray
    The belief that if I close my eyes and fall backwards
    You will catch me.

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    • Michele348's avatar Michele348

      Slowly but surely the measuring cup becomes full and stands ready to pour out a full quantity of trust. Rehavia6, your list perfectly depicts the progression of trust between 2 strangers who then eventually develop a bond that securely holds them together.

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    • Andre Lijoi's avatar Andre Lijoi

      Such a beautiful accounting of a relationship growing in intimacy, getting to know the other, and the trust that serves as the foundation. To be read aloud over and over.

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