Live Virtual Group Session: 6PM EDT June 12th 2023

Thank you to everyone who joined us for this session!

For this session we read a poem Medical History” by Eleanor Stanford, posted below.

Our prompt was a choice between: Write about a parallel conversation. OR Begin writing with “The pain started…”

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"Medical History" by Eleanor Stanford

When did the pain start?
Three weeks ago, Saturday.
Deep breath.
It comes and goes.
When did the pain—
It started with my mother.
When?
In 1979, the grey skies of São Paolo, summer a hammered 
             metal helmet.
I’m sorry. My hands are cold. Again?
In Bavaria, before I was born, when my grandfather held the four 
             tasseled corners of the world in his hands and prayed.
Other side.
In a lacquer factory in Hokkaido: the gloss, the stink, the smooth
	    reflective surface.
When?
1934. 1968. When I was five, and learned to move from one element 
            to another. Water to air. Dark to
The pain?
Stabbing. Dull. A branch extending from—
Higher?
Lower.
The pain?
Yes. A tight-stitched shawl. A lacquer bowl—
Here? Where the stomach—
burnished vessel,
meets the ilium.
Ornamental thread I don’t believe in.
Tender? 
Yes. 


Eleanor Stanford
Subtropics: The Literary Journal of the University of Florida 
Issue 19: Spring/Summer 015

8 thoughts on “Live Virtual Group Session: 6PM EDT June 12th 2023

  1. Michele348's avatar Michele348

    The pain started…

    ~when I realized the world wasn’t fair
    ~when dictators rule their countries with heartless abandon,
    disregarding the welfare of those they govern
    ~when children go to bed hungry and homeless and the scenario continues day after day
    ~when an individual feels there is no way out and so he blows a hole through his head
    ~when there is no forgiveness and there’s only me against you

    This pain endures… will it ever end?

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    • Elizabeth's avatar Elizabeth

      Michele, you offer us such powerful examples of pain. There were such intensity in the examples that we must pay attention. Isn’t that what pain calls for us to do?

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  2. Rita B's avatar Rita B

    A parallel conversation
    Rita Basuray

    Hi, how are you?
    I’m sick of work – hate it!

    Are you OK?
    Yes, but work is killing me!

    I’m glad you are ok …
    Not really. My boss chewed me out. It wasn’t my fault.

    Anyhow, care to go out for a drink?
    Didn’t you hear me? I’m mad..

    Well …
    Well, what? A drink won’t dull my ache.

    Well, I was thinking that going out might take your mind off what’s bothering you.
    Bothering me? No. No! I’m upset. Not bothered.

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    • Elizabeth's avatar Elizabeth

      Your piece really emphasizes the importance of deeply paying attention to what people say. Sadly, in reality so little attention is paid to this.

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    • Michele348's avatar Michele348

      Rita, sometimes we hear only what we need to hear, our minds section off what we refuse to hear or what we deem unimportant. Unfortunate but true, I think.

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  3. Elizabeth's avatar Elizabeth

    I don’t know when the pain started.
    It comes and goes,
    It comes and goes.
    It is noticed more during times of emotional stress.
    During happy times it subsides.
    Sometimes it is used as a shared experience-
    A little club of sorts.
    Other times it feels like the loneliest place in the world.
    Mind – body?
    Body – mind?
    Fortunately/unfortunately
    The pain origin will forever remain unknown.

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    • michele348's avatar michele348

      I agree, Elizabeth, sometimes if the pain is shared by others, it somehow lessens the intensity. Unfortunately, at times, we must bear the burden entirely by ourselves and this pain penetrates the entire body and spirit. That’s why the trait of compassion is so very important in the field of health CARE.

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