Live Virtual Group Session: 6PM EDT May 12th 2025

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For this session we read a poem “Seated Beside Iggy at a Dinner Party” by Anne Tannam, posted below.

Our prompt was: Write about diving in.

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Seated Beside Iggy at a Dinner Party by Anne Tannam

It's hard not to feel intimidated. After all, this is
the man who invented the stage dive, bare-chested

haloed father of punk rock, ecstatic, bloodied, wing-torn
Icarus, resurrected, strutting his tail feathers, embracing

the legend of the fall. Puts you in mind of your mother,
who, on her sixtieth birthday, skydived from a height

of ten thousand feet, the crack of her ankle breaking
heralded her triumphant descent, into the family hall of fame.

You wait until they've served dessert, a rich chocolate
ganache tart, garnished with the season's first strawberries,

before turning to glance sideways at his face, its hush
of concentration, each spoonful manna from heaven lifted

reverently to his lips, rapt expression a cross between Tiny
Tim's and Scrooge's as they feasted on the ghost of second

chances and the promise of Christmas all year round. Swivelling
in your seat, you clear your throat; it's now or never.

When will you again get the chance to crack the code
of how to live like tomorrow is a conspiracy

of the imagination? He puts down his spoon, like he's got
all day, waits for you to form the words. If you don’t

mind me asking, your face reddening, how do you
do it; how do you live like you're never going to die?

He gestures to your untouched plate: the scalloped
pastry's golden crust, the heady marriage of chocolate

and cream, the curvaceous blush of summer fruit. A gift
from the gods, he says, beckoning: go on, dive in.

Credit: Anne Tannam

5 thoughts on “Live Virtual Group Session: 6PM EDT May 12th 2025

  1. Rita B's avatar Rita B

    Diving in –

    by Rita Basuray

    (I wrote from the point of view of my father’s patient)

    This was my first Jamai-Shasti, so I dove right into the delectable delights of food presented to me lovingly by my doting mother-in-law. Jamai-Shashti is celebrated by the bride’s family to welcome the new son-in-law into the family, with what else? but food!

    Food is love – as they say.

    I ate fragrant basmati rice with 2 types of lentils, shrimp – hot and savory, then 3 types of fish, 2 servings of meat curry, ending with 3 types of sweets.

    How would I know that on this day, my appendix would burst?

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    • al3793's avatar al3793

      Rita, firstly, it was so nice to see you tonight. We keep missing each other.

      Your speaker tells this story so beautifully. A welcoming that sounds delicious. Food is love.

      This story reminded me of my grandfaher’s gall bladder attack after eating with us one day. Nothing exotic, just food off the grill -something he loved. But there was no convincing him that that burger didn’t cause the gall stones.

      I also recall vividly the way my grandmother would feed us when we visited from medical school. She would look as us gaunt and tired and say, “Morte!” and she would cover the table with food. (Both Italian immigrants, mid 20th century.

      Thanks Andre

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  2. al3793's avatar al3793

    Write about diving in…

    “You know you can sit at the edge of the pool just so long.

    At some point you just have to dive it.”

    That from a Kafkaesque character from my training

    who would sit cross legged while chewing paper during lectures.

    I wasn’t sure what he noticed from behind those black plastic

    framed glasses, lenses as thick at the bottom of a coke bottle.

    Both were uncertain.

    She still reeling from a breakup.

    The other fearful of messing up what seemed so beautiful.

    Dive in they did, one toe at a time…

    now forty years later…

    despite an occasional mess,

    still beautiful.

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  3. michele348's avatar michele348

    About diving in~~~

    This life is a winding journey filled with its ups and downs.
    Most of us do not remember our first moments
    entering this world,
    and many would like to
    forget certain parts of our lives
    that have gone awry.

    But here’s my perspective,
    for what it’s worth…
    if you are not going to enjoy the ride,
    why begin it at all?

    Each day, make it your best… be courageous, be bold.
    There are no guarantees in this life…
    both the young and old can pass away, often without any warning.

    Let it be on my gravestone:
    “She tried it all,
    sometimes falling flat on her face,
    but she got up and tried again…
    if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.”

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  4. Andre Lijoi's avatar Andre Lijoi

    Michele

    You speaker captures human commonalities – I reckon no one recalls their first moment on this planet and all have ones to forget. All are called into the poem as Tannam invites.

    your reader is invited to be bold and courageous, enjoy the ride of life and approach it with an air of optimism. Nice.
    Andre

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